Monday, January 29, 2007

Are We a Bunch of Hypocrites


“CELEBRITY BIG BROTHER “Shilpa Shetty’s Biggest Hit till Date
Her agent says She is being considered for the Academy Award (I added that)


While the furore over the racist comments against Shilpa Shetty dies, amidst the so-called great victory of hers in the Celebrity Big Brother, we must pause and analyse the Indian Governments response. Rarely have we seen such swift action by India in taking up a important issue. Well Shilpa Shetty was racially abused .Fine!!! But what about the lakhs and millions of migrant laborers an skilled workers alike who bear the brunt of much worse racial and even physical abuse than Miss Shetty. The Indian Government tried to talk about the controversy with Mr. Gordon Brown, who was on an official visit to India. It is a pity that instead of discussing issues such as the Iraq fiasco, the nuclear supplier’s group problems and how to deal with Iran, we ended up discussing the sex appeal of Miss Shetty. History does provide us with great examples of the hypocrisy of our Government, our political class and indeed our people.

For that matter we take great pride in our Indian culture and Indian ethos and talking about women being a source of worship and reverence and give women the status of mother while on the other hand there is a case of molestation and sexual harassment in our capital , every two weeks. Most shocking of all, a girl is molested by 70 people on New Years Eve at the gateway of India and ironically, the girl gets the blame for wearing an alluring dress and tempting the men folks. To speak of statistics according to National Crime Reports Bureau, 154333 crimes against women were registered in 2004.Of these 18233 are rape, 58121 molestation and 10001 sexual harassment.

On one hand, we rejoice the elections of Mr. Jindal as a representative of the people of Louisiana and support his candidature for the gubernatorial post and hailed the rise of new India when Mahendra Choudhary is elected PM of FIJI, these very own people protest and called for nationwide strikes when Sonia Gandhi, was poised to become the Prime Minister of India. She being an Indian Citizen and also the undisputed leader of the single largest party in the elections had every right to stake her claim. But no!!!First she has to prove her Indian ness, said the Shiv Sena's and the BJPs and other so-called swadeshi and purely Indian groups. The BJP had accused Sonia of being a foreigner and therefore not fit to lead the country and, as the election campaign gathered momentum, the accusations deteriorated.

It was said that, even though she took Indian citizenship 21 years ago, Sonia did not see herself as Indian because:
(a) She continued to hold the deed (or at least part share) to her ancestral home in Italy – wasn’t that a terrible thing to do for someone who saw herself as Indian?
(b) Her favourite dish was pasta and her children spoke fluent Italian – weren’t these signs that she did not see herself as Indian?
Where is the patriotic and nationalistic feeling gone when a government allows systematic and state sponsored slaughter of hundreds an hundreds of Muslims and still has the guts to talk that the ruling party is dividing the country on communal lines.
The odd thing is that India has always prided itself on being an open and tolerant society. For years, it has opened itself up to the ‘foreigner’ and has welcomed and assimilated all kinds of ideas and change. Indian history is replete with foreigners who have made this country their home. Among the examples are Mother Teresa (no Indian held her to account for being a ‘foreigner’) and Annie Besant, who was, like Sonia Gandhi, leader of the Congress Party, and who well and truly dirtied her hands in the murky world of Indian politics.

Then, if we flip the picture and look at it differently, there are other realities. If we have not hesitated to claim foreigners as our own, we also have not quibbled much about ‘Indians’ who become foreigners. VS Naipaul is still seen as Indian, as is Amartya Sen – or are they exceptions because they won the Nobel Prize? Don’t we go Gung Ho over a certain Sunita Williams going to space and so on, when that person has not, in her entire life, been to India? She was an American until she went aboard the space shuttle and suddenly became The Favourite Daughter of India. So much so for Dual Citizenship.

Indians are in every single country in the world today. They are making their fortunes, fighting for their rights, and they want to be seen as citizens of the country they have made their home. There is a large number of middle class Indians whose life dream it is to acquire a Green Card and become American. How then can we castigate anyone who makes our country his or her home? We expect people to accept Indians to accept us as a integral and natural part of their society, while we ourselves refuse to do so. Now!!Aren't those glaring double standards.

6 comments:

Utsav Mamoria said...

actually we have so many double standards . From my point of view shilpa made a cool 450,000 pounds from the show and also a lot of publicity and it gave a boost to her flagging career. We have this tendency to highlighting trivial issues while missing the bigger picture altogether. nice post keep writing

Adwait Deshpande said...

@utsav
thanks for the comment buddy
indeed i wanted to add the prize money won by Shilpa Shetty(350000+100000)Pounds,but somehow missed it.Thanks for mentioning that.Our society has become one of Sensationalisation rather than Sensitisation.What say?

True Conscience said...

Mr. Adwait,

This happens to China before. Everyone just wanted to go to the Land of Gold (America). Even up until now, you could argue that many Chinese still want to reside in America.

This explains why Chinatowns are all over the world.

Just like the Indians you pointed out, Chinese too express pride for their overseas sons' achievement.

Which Chinese are not proud of Lee Kuan Yew?

Do not think this is exclusively Indian problem.

This is the problem of developing nations.

Adwait Deshpande said...

Mr Benny
Thanks for ur comments.As u said ,
"Do not think this is exclusively Indian problem.", i did not think it as a problem just for indians.I wrote it from indian perspective bcoz, i have seen such things happen in our country. As i havnt been to a foreign country , i can hardly say anything about them.

But i wrote about indians being proud about their Sons in the US in relation to not allowing Sonia Gandhi to take up the PMs post inspite of she being an india citizen for 21 years. I wish to expose the different moral standards of people wen it comes to dealing with Politicians.
They apply different yardsticks for different people .

True Conscience said...

O ya, that hypocrisy. I understand what you meant. You think that since Indians are proud that their overseas sons achieve high offices in their adopted countries, Sonia Gandhi, being half-Italian, should also get the same opportunity.

I agree with you.

If I recall correctly, most Indians wanted her to lead India. But this silent majority was no match to the militant minority.

Sonia is indeed a noble woman. She withdrew so that Indians did not have to bicker about her issue long enough to disrupt the country. She deserves that "Gandhi" name.

And she did choose a good prime minister though. Your current prime minister is a pragmatic and also good man, I heard.

Your country is already on the right track - with the right man and woman (I heard she still leads behind the scenes). In the future, Indians do not need to go overseas to live good lives.

Just look at China, the Chinese are coming back!

Jagan said...

u hv hit the bulls-eye dude..Double standards has always been our leitmotif..sample this: Our govt gives subsidies(huge ones)for the poor in the ration n petrol n gas but the ultimate beneficiaries turn out to be the rich people..and btw, y shud the govt be concerned bout the people who encounter racism every single day..?? they anyway remit a piffling 8 billion bucks.. No doubt that the foreigners think of india as a land of snake charmers and pachyderms..